@Lady Rain
Then you might consider to meditate in your dreams, if you can't take the time while awake. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" /> Seriously, if you manage to think about something precise when you fall asleep, often your dreams will bring you some insight about it. At least, it does for me.
@ Ube -> i used to scoff at my aunt's words 'one day when u look back, u'll laugh at things u took so seriously when it's just not a big deal at all'. now it comes back to me & i do feel that i was rather silly in my youth yet i enjoyed it much despite the many pains i had to go through (some were & still are the worst pain i have experienced). sop yes, one way to look at your life is to picture yourself in the future looking back into the past. that way, u view 'now' as past which is to be made to achieve what & where u want to be in the future where u envision yourself to be as u look into the past.
hope u get what i say. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />
I know what you mean, it's been a bit like that for me too; add that to the fact that I was always the youngest among my friends. But the thing that really liberated me is when I stopped seeing myself mostly through the others' eyes.
