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*mumbles something about a drunk person always speaks a sober mind*

If you want to get the TRUTH of what you feel, and what you think... go write something after a couple of glasses....

Alcohol strips us of all pretence... all thats left is the REAL stuff...

I know now, but not when I was seven <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />. Now adays I rarelly do what others do (unless when I don't know what to do, if for example I'm supposed to be at this place at this time and a bunch of my classmates (who is supposed to be there too) is going somewhere, I'll tag along. But that's basiclly it).

@ Lady_Rain: Oh, didn't you read about my attitude to alcohol?

And I have no feeling of giving, really. I never really have the chance. But I know what you meen, and I'm trying. It's just that it's so damn hard. You can't do it in the blink of an eye, so to say.

And by the way, your posts warms <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />.

Übereil

Meditation works.

@ Alrik
Nice to hear that you have met someone, and I hope that you finally find hapiness in life. You really deserve it, friend. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />

I wish i could ever be alone to meditate... but time is a luxury in my life.... and being alone is just unheard of!!!!!

@ ubs, sorry i didnt know that you dont drink at all... i very seldomly drink... but when i do, i make sure i do it properly.... (not fallover drunk stuff, just way too tipsy to care about the world, and to fall asleep in 3 seconds flat)

Either which way ubs... we still love you for who you are.... a very warm person, and a person who makes us all feel special all the time <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Thanks. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" /> But it's a little bit complicated, still. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

@ Alrik
Take your time friend, nothing is rushing you. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/hug.gif" alt="" />

@ Al -> way to go! never mind it's still too early. enjoy the blooming. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

@ Lady Rain -> Cleg has a great idea. if i'm not mistaken, meditation doesn't take hours or to be alone to do it. u have to create that environment in your head, not around u for it to happen. it can be around lunch time, or drive back from work, while installing stuff on computer etc. there are many ways of meditation. do find out which is right for u! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

@ Cleg -> thanks for the idea. never thought of it. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/up.gif" alt="" />

@ Ube -> i used to scoff at my aunt's words 'one day when u look back, u'll laugh at things u took so seriously when it's just not a big deal at all'. now it comes back to me & i do feel that i was rather silly in my youth yet i enjoyed it much despite the many pains i had to go through (some were & still are the worst pain i have experienced). sop yes, one way to look at your life is to picture yourself in the future looking back into the past. that way, u view 'now' as past which is to be made to achieve what & where u want to be in the future where u envision yourself to be as u look into the past.

hope u get what i say. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />

Yes; in principle that's right. Just take the breakfast time (lunch time), for example. If you have a small park outside (don't know) with a bench, you could just sit there and close your eyes - and tell the internat timer to wake you up in ten minutes or so. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />

I
want some of that luxury they call time!!!!!
quick schedule (of the average day)
7:30 wake up, shower get ready, make sure husband is fed and well, etc
etc etc
8:30 leave the house, and HOPE you can get to the office in peak hour
traffic in 30 mites.
9:00 grab a cuppa java in the rush to get to the first meeting (with
BIG bosses)
9:30 now that i am thoroughly crapped out etc etc etc, start the 2nd
meeting to motivate sales staff - this is normally with LOUD music,
lots of cheering and clapping and a headache to follow
10:30 Make sure everyone got the propper amount of leads needed, and
hand out appointments
11:00 everyone out of the office, phone clients to confirm delivery
times, sort out problems etc... (with boss breathing down your neck )
11:30 Appointments with clients every 2 hours.... till 9:30 pm, after
which you rush home and drop dead in bed..... (average appointment duration is 1:30 and requires more brainpower in overcoming objections, finding solutions to THEIR needs (with your own products naturally) and loads of negotiating
i didnt see lunch or breakfast times there...

Getting on the net, either very late in the evenings (in a braindead stage), or 3 minutes here and 2 minutes there between meetings while sorting through appointments.

What's the ponit of haveing a job like that? You might get loads of cash, but do you ever get time to enjoy all the cash you earn?

Übereil

@Lady Rain
Then you might consider to meditate in your dreams, if you can't take the time while awake. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" /> Seriously, if you manage to think about something precise when you fall asleep, often your dreams will bring you some insight about it. At least, it does for me.


I know what you mean, it's been a bit like that for me too; add that to the fact that I was always the youngest among my friends. But the thing that really liberated me is when I stopped seeing myself mostly through the others' eyes.

Sorry, but I can't resist : It sounds like he was a baby ... <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />

I do hope he isn't in a body condition that he really needs help like this, but if it is so, then I'm sorry (and glad that he has someone who helps him).

If not ...



Very good idea ! Worke for / with me sometimes, too ! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

I think i should try that.... hopefully i will succeed <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />

As for hubby, he is perfectly capable of physically looking after himself.... the arrangement goes something like this... He cooks supper for us, i prepare breakfast for him and make sure he has sarmies for the day. sowwy in my hurry to type the previous post, i sort of didnt explain anything.

Okay; I rather expected this. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />

Lady Rain, i hope soon enough u will find a better job that treats u more humanely & gives u the time to live life. in the meanwhile, stay TOUGH!! <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />

About what Lady_Rain and I was talking about, here's some lyrics that perfectlly resembles that house:

This is the happy house...we're happy here
In the happy house...oh it's such fun
We've come to play in the happy house
And waste a day in the happy house
It never rains
We've come to scream in the happy house
We're in a dream in the happy house
We're all quite sane
This is the happy house...we're happy here
There's room for you if you say "I do"
But don't say no or you'll have to go
We've done no wrong with our blinkers on
It's safe and calm if you sing along
This is the happy house...we're happy here in the happy house
To forget ourselves...and pretend all's well
There is no hell.

Übereil

You got that one Spot on <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />