Hello!
It's a bit late for me to jump on the topic but I do it anyway since it is a very, very interesting subject and that we're all touched/part by/of this phenomenon.
Although each case is unique, I agree with Shantara, Alrik, Janggut and Tsel's point of view about it.
If someone needs to lie about itself, this person only deserves pity. As to decide if it is better to whether leave or to continue to hobnob with that person, it is really to be determinated by the two people involved's personnality, attitude and moral valors versus the circumstances of the lie, the importance the relationship with that person has for the hurted one, and the depht of the inflicted pain.
The best decision is the one that will allow the hurted one to be serene again. And anger and pain can hardly lead to peace of mind. So it needs time to decide wich is the best move to do: the time for the pain to grow smaller, the time to be able to see the situation and understand the feelings more globally, clearly and objectively. The person will take the best decision when her sentiments will be according with her mind regarding that situation, when considered in a point of view that allows her to be more "objective".
I'm not used to these forum mentalities; it's the first time I register on a forum for the fun to participate. When I registered here, I was far from imagining it could be a kind of little family as it is here, and that it would make me feel like a little virtual home. It is even more unexpected that this is a game forum; it's been an amazing surprise to discover how rich and deep are the chat sections.
I'm still new, I don't know a lot of you all, but until now I really love what is going on here and it made me do lots of great discoveries.
So thank you for that. <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/wave.gif" alt="" />
LaFille <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />
