HEF >

Thank you.

I realize this subject will bring up a lot of past pains
in many of us.
Please, do not let that be your albatross.
It takes great courage to talk about this subject
and everyone who does I applaud you all.

This topic is not asking you to reveal your name,
where you live or anything like that.
It is only a means to express your views whether experienced or not.
They are your views and moral topics are my best to discuss.
So I started this thread off on a moral topic.

Many, many years ago my first love cheated on me with another.
Even after so many years I have never gotten over that.
Now, sadly, all women suffer for what someone else has done to me.
It is very hard to trust again after something like that.
While I was in the military many men and women both cheated on their loves.
While I was on shore duty and my command deployed away,
as soon as the plane was in the air the spouses were piling up at the clubs
looking for their one night stands.
It broke my heart.
What surprised me is how many of them saw this as okay behavior;
hence, I bring this topic up here to see if this is the norm.

If any of you wish to play the devil advocate then do so.

I only started this thread with intellectual future discussions in mind.
Again, thank you HEF.

Tsel


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