@ Glance: About what bother is: Does it have to be so defined?
That's not what I asked it for - that's why I gave potential answers with a question mark. But I do think it is something one should ask oneself and become aware of.
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But still, you've done the same thing,
Not from my perspective - I have BEEN cheated in a relationship, and I was party to someone else cheating her relationship - I did not have another one at the time, for me it had been THE relation. Now whether my part in it was unreproachfully ethical or not, can be debated, granted - but it is a different issue in this context IMO.
In times of crisis it is of the utmost importance not to lose your head (Marie Antoinette)
