Reading Ubereil's posts i don't think he is unhappy (except the weather problem).
I think Ub likes to stay at home playing games on his computer or listening music or chatting in the forum.
I think he doesn't really want to meet people or to have a lot of friends.
I think he feels different from other people but it's untrue a lot of people are just like him.
Pretty accurate <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/smile.gif" alt="" />. I do like to spend time on my own, but meeting friends at least once in a while would be nice. I acually miss not haveing firends <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />. And when I didn't have you to talk to I wasn't happy at all <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />.
And it's meeting new pepole I don't like to do. And as said, a few friends would be nice.
@ Drag: I am shy, and therefore not very socially skilled (it's not only the shyness, my shyness has allso made me avoid training my social skills). Otherwise I'm pretty much like you, problems talking to strangers, can't see them in the eyes really (training on it).
I ran into a guy from my class (or acually, he ran into me) at EB-games today. We don't talk much (I don't talk much to anyone in my class). We both have the Math-computers focus on our natur sience, so we have kind of the same subjects (a few differs). He asked me what I was looking for (I was looking for Fate btw, couldn't find it) and we started talking about RPGs in general (we both play RPGs). It was acually kind of a normal talk. I believe it is as you say, find someone with common interests and talking goes easilly. It's allso more likelly you can become friends if you have common interests.
And about being HSP, I'm not sure. It seems the HSP is really aware of his surroundings, and I don't think I am (more the other way around). What I would really like is a better description of what a HSP is than you can find on that site. Wikipedia wasn't much help <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/disagree.gif" alt="" />.
And just noticed:
Ub i guess you should move in Italy as soon as possible.
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The problem is I don't know anyone in Italy, and not knowing anyone at all wouldn't work, so then I would have to get to know a bunch of new pepole, and I wouldn't like that (besides, Silvio Berlusconi is president there, he's even whorse than GB <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/winkwink.gif" alt="" />).
Übereil