While there are many men who are indeed ratbags of the worst kind, the vast majority of us are not.
There have always been extremist Feminists with an anti-male agenda, and this is nothing new, nor anything to really get upset about, IMO. Feminism has done a lot of good things for women, but the agenda has not always been about equality, and that has been obvious for a long time, I think.
Just as misogynism is nothing new in men, so hatred of men is nothing new in women. Similarly, abuse is not just a one way street.
I like to hope that we as a species will someday outgrow the horrible things we do to each other.
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In nature, there are many forms of sexual abuse, from packs of male dolphins who hold females prisoner when they are in heat (A recent discovery, and a quite appalling one, IMO) to female spiders who decapitate their partner during intercourse and eat him afterwards (Something thankfully not practiced by even the most fanatical feminists <img src="/ubbthreads/images/graemlins/biggrin.gif" alt="" />). Nature is often not very nice to her children of either sex.