Ha! I deceived myself there! Seeing as how you jumped on the "older girls" wagon, I assumed, you were one. Well, no point in my trying to convey my point, because your needs are being catered to in abundance. Why would you take issue in that?

Of course when I saw your games list, there was only the one game I could like, DD2. The others are guns and war and exactely what I can't find any fun in because it makes me horribly depressed.
On the contrary I actually like to hear what other people look for in games as I'm training to be a game designer. So your views and opinions (as well as anyone else who put their points across constructively) are very important to me so that I can gain a better understanding of what people look for in games.
As for whether my needs are being catered to, well you don't really know what my needs are so I'm not sure you can make such a bold claim there just because I am a male.
Don't really see the big issue with guns and war personally (I suppose being in the Armed Forces has a lot to do with it). After all every game in some way or another is based on violence (bar some sports games, population sims, or music games) even games like Divinity 2 and Dragon Age. I understand the motion sickness thing but it seems to go a bit deeper than that with you.
Consoles and modding. I wish. The lack of community content on consoles is something I really do dislike. Something that is starting to break down these barriers is Indie Games on the Xbox 360. I think the main problem here is that companies want money out of content that they put on their respective marketplaces, aswell as content control.
Good job I have a PC aswell for those multi platform games I really do like.