In light of your answer, does Witcher run on 360? It is a pretty new game, so I think it might be more likely to than the "classics" I almost, but not quite, recommend getting a PC for.

Just to note: it did not offend me at all, but as a female gamer, I found it a bit silly that there was quite a bit of casual encounters ongoing in this game (optional though) but all were written for guy lead player.
This game was at times quite hard, but still beatable, and is a very muvh a "save the world with your sword" type of game... but, whatever choices you make will impact the later parts of the game, so the "consequence" system of this game would be a highlight in the same way as mindreading is an original, enjoyable feature of Divinity 2.
And influence system in Neverwinter Nights - really brilliant, I think you would like it.