Its hard to define a build just base on stats/ skill points gain through level up, as you will gain some extra points through out the game by mind read, skill books and stat books. Since you assuming max level is 35, you should still be in ED.
How to distribute your stats points basically base on equipments and charms you use. From my experience in the original ED, you can have all 3 stats, str, dex and int close to 90+ to 100 range if you know how to select your equipments and charms. As for vit and spi, basically is all personal preference. If you feel that your hp or mp is enough to sustain you through out the fight, then you wont need to add anymore. Besides you can easily find accessories which provide you with extra hp and mp, where you wont need to spend so much point on these 2 stats. I recently restart again in the DKS ED and currently around lvl24, and has close to 70 points of unused stats points, still I can progress without much trouble in hard mode.
As for skill wise, your skill wont be max at just lvl5, as you skill trainer will extend the cap beyond lvl5. Reflect and defensive posture is basically waste of points. If you dont know bout it, all resistances max out at 75% if I remember correctly. And with high str and resistance enchantments from you armors and shield, you basically wont need defensive posture at all. A high level battle rage will prove to be more useful for you as you are low in damage with sword and shield build. Instead of using reflect, life leech will be a better choice to always maximize your hp bar. Thousand strike is a good skill for boss. I still remember I can kill the last boss divine in the ED with 1 cast of thousand strike with my dual wield warrior.
