dont worry its not anyones fault.... well except Microsoft for being greedy bastards, and want everyone to pay $59.99 a year just to play online, which i might add on PS3 is FREE...
anyways, i dont think they give out free gold member trials no more, im not sure, last time i tried that it didnt work out.
but im gonna try again.
i must play this game!!

EDIT
OMG it worked, i created a new xbox live account for UK and it gave me a gold 1 month free.
its downloading now YES!!!!!!
now the waiting game.......