1)How do u suggest i add my stats then ?
I don't know. I do put points in everything, so I always have mana for my attacks, and a good defense against everything. Put more points in Strength and Vitality, and much less in the stat that just adds mana points. The stat that adds in magic resistance (Intelligence ?) also adds in magic damage (from weapons).
2)Any suggestions on wat skills should i MAX out for Warrior ?
Whirlwind, Leap, one weapon skill (2 handed in your case I guess ?). Until you can leech life from attacks, maxing out Ghost is usefull (you can reset your skill points once you get your battle tower).
3)Are POTS the only way to heal can VIT help at all? N is there Blacksmith beside Alchemist?
Potions and food, yes. With many points in Vitality and Strength, you should get health points back much more quickly. Try finding health leech weapons, with a two-handed sword, as you do AoE, you get HP quickly. Once you get to the point where you have 50% chance of leeching 50% damage (so 25% of dealt damage), health becomes a non-issue, if you keep some potions just in case.
4)There's a mind reading skill if i MAX it out will i still cost EXP ?
At 15 mindreading is free. Personally I prefer putting those points in attack skills, or ghost, or whatever else.