I dont think the devs can help you on this one .You might have to rethink u strats im lvl 13 and i havent even left broken valley yet, havent touched maxis tower and still have a bunch more stuff to turn in in fairness this is my several go around with the game cause i enjoy it so much(sorry to hear you are not) fav specis archer/mage now testin out battle mage heavy on the mage end my vitality is about double yours not sure on rest of stats.If you take your time read through some of the posts you find nice little tricks that im sure will make the game much more appealing.
Also even playing this game several times i still found stuff i missed.
I'm sure also if you need help you could always pm someone here on forums there are a great deal of ppl here that enjoy helping others enjoy the game . The only thing i frown apon is ppl that bash the game before they really understand it ,I dont want to sound negative and mean no disrespect but i think you need to slow down and pay close attention to things more you will find it quite helpful