Hmmm....on offense, just my opinion:
I have the feeling you better change your "point of view" with the DKS :
it's a RPG full of Fantasy, so don't expect (too) many realistic events/things in the DKS !
Oblivion has more realistic events, but despites that I love much much much more the DKS, just because of the Fantasy !
I like it when a game CAN'T be reality! The real world is already, unfortunality(!!),ful of drama, horror, ... please, let a game a GAME (of Fun and pleasure) and not try making a game TOO seriously, too realistic !!
What should I say to all of you who want a game that is very realistic ?
Let your fantasy & imagination flowing in your mind
so your Spirit shall be forever young
And your fantasy contaminate others of all mankind