It plays so relaxed because AS long as it is my Turn I can take ALL my time I needed (and I'm definitely a SLOW player) !
This is the exact reason why I still love meaningful turn-based combat in RPGs.
This is also the reason why I refrained from buying any action-RPGs in the past. The Divinity games are the only exceptions, because they have - for my taste - strengths that no other RPG has (good humour, for example, and deep lore - and a good world, design, imho).
