I'm disappointed, but not surprised.

Still... if the Dragon Commander is only ever in first person on the Raven and only ever in Dragon Form in cutscenes and combat and the script is cleverly worded to only call him 'Commander' or 'Family Name', I guess I could always try to pretend the Dragon Knight's female after all. And also, inevitably, gay.

As for modding in a more feminine body... that all depends on how often the human form shows up. If it's in cutscenes... well, good luck.