aww crap!
can't imagine if i allow marriage in same gender.
I was real conservative in my first play through. On my next one I just plan on surveying the ambassadors and doing which ever got 3 or more votes, regardless of how I feel. Should mix things up well and keep the most people happy.
I did note however that towards the end of act three the Undead were asking for some crazy stuff that no one else agreed with. I was starting to feel sorry for them, but that ambassador was clearly nuts.