Like I was saying earlier, that's why I was trying to steer it back to topics that DID matter. That is to say, a good compromise between the viewpoints or a way to incorporate both.
I have also elsewhere noted that making a sexism argument instead of an aesthetic argument is never going to get anywhere. What this topic can and should be doing is figuring out a way to aesthetically please the majority of the community.
Throwing out insults discredits your more constructive and meaningful opinions you just posted above. You're right that some of it should not have happened, but not all parts of this discussion are useless.
I wish you had just started by saying why you found it useless. Would've been a conversation we could've started on better terms. I hope you see my side at least that there -could- be potential for conversation here, even if it's not meeting it atm.