Surprising fact: Larian did not suddenly take a holiday and stop working just because Swen is not in the building!
Astonishing fact: if you show games to the media, the media reports on your games. If the media reports on your games, you get more customers! If you get more customers, you get more money! If you get more money, you can make better games!
Amazing fact: Software development is an art not a science! Unexpected delays and setbacks happen. If you don't trust Larian to deliver, why did you back them through Kickstarter?
Even if you don't have time or don't care to read sources of information other than the Larian forums, other people who do read those are normally happy to pass along what they have heard. But being a jerk is not going to make people want to spend time to pass along stuff like that to you.