Hence my request only for a toggle back, since they had it such that it worked the way I would like before. I don't like having things marked before I find them, which is my biggest grievance and why I would like to have to put my own notes on the map or not have any at all.
And yeah, I'm "so hardcore". Look at my internet old school RPG e-peen guys. It's totally not that I just have old school RPG experience or something, and that I might have a preference based on it!
