Yes i know Rose, i asked something like an apologise for it on Larian's offical jukebox forum, you can read there.
You're wrong in just one point Rose, here we don't use baby or babe to women, just some guys do this.
Babe = Bebê(child)
Like you said: Guys say "baby" all the time, especially to women.
But here isn't a usual word, you can say:
Dear - Querida My love - meu amor my baby - meu bebê(not so usual, something like 30% use this) My dear wife or girlfriend - minha querida esposa ou namorada My little candy - meu docinho(with a little different meaning)
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