No one has received their forum badge (since you registered today, I'm not sure how you were expecting to get it without a forum account).

According to the Kickstarter page, the $80 tier is:
Quote
Divinity Dragon Commander Digital Copy
=============================
Two games, two times the fun!
  • You'll recieve a code for Dragon Commander as soon as it is released (ETA July 2013)
  • Kickstarter Potion
  • Zandalor's Epic Trunks of Intelligence
  • Digital Duo Pack Divinity Original Sin
  • Soundtrack Digital Download
  • Developer's Cut Digital (Documents and Videos)
  • Message in the woods
  • Credited as Backer


The collector's edition does have some things not listed in the sidebar description:
- The golden grail
- Art pack
- copy of Divine Divinity
- copy of Beyond Divinity

This does not necessarily mean that the sidebar version won't also get the golden grail and art book. I don't know either way.

However the collector's edition does NOT include Dragon Commander ($40 value), which was in your package.