Issh - thanks for your reply, i was talking about the grave with a totem just next to the sobbing orc. I just assumed that - since he attacked me when I started digging - this was the grave his brother was in.
I haven't explored the area around it except for the 3-4 totems and the 4 torches where the traps are laid out, because of the save & load crash - bug. I didn't want to risk dying
And thanks for the explanation about the way loot works.
