"respec" should not exists in this game and its one of the mass market features forced in for the likes of you.
You should be lucky its even in the game at all.
Jesus, man, calm down.
Hiver made it clear he was very much against respecs back during the beta and held very little regard for people in favor of the feature. Unfortunately for him, respecs were advertised by the developers as early as the kickstarter campaign. So, I don't really see that as being "forced in".
He should be happy, while they are implemented they come at a cost that makes them completely unappealing.