Yeah was thinking of not allowing certain spells in my game, but it is a hard call because then I will get into a battle where "stun" is going on like crazy in a water or blood surface and I am getting owned.

I think some of the easier battles should just be beefed up somehow. I wish they had it so that it looks at your party level, and if the party is lower level the battle stays as-is. But if you are the same level or higher, they throw in more enemies.