Good.
Yeah the spider though loathsome looking, is a pretty good member of the team, I came to realize that pretty quickly- also who gives a damn if it dies? Always my first geo spell. Certain skills and spells are essential to start with depending on class/build. For any fighter I recomend to be sure you get Battering Ram, Dust Devil and Cure wounds at first level.
I like my tank! LOL My favorite. But a Stealth Archer ( also sounds from some of what other posters are saying ) could be just as lethal in different ways.
More than one way to do it, I am sure you will figure methods out and succeed. Dont be afraid to start over if your not liking the party, and be careful of respec with Moloch the Demon in Homestead, you have to re-learn all the skills which you lose and some skillbooks are only avilable once and they are some of the best skills. It is not a game breaker but can cause some frustration and regret.
I havent used Madora so no idea what she is like. I hated Jahan as soon as I met him so I never recruit him, at least not yet. Wolgraff is my fave. Bairdotr seems weak, but maybe she is better than I am giving her credit for.
Dont waste time talking to us, go play buddy! I would be playing too, if I wasnt marooned (for what seems like an eternity) at work.
Have fun Storming the castle!