..."men and women are different" is so backwards... Not only is it ingraining an "us vs them" mentality, but is also wrong on so many different levels.
It's not wrong, it's simply a fact. BUT... the important thing is how it is handled.
I'm for example a wheelchair driver, I can't move my legs, that's a fact. But this doesn't mean I have to lay in bed the whole day... even while I may need the attentiveness for a different approach here and there. (note: I did not say 'help')
A different starting point doesn't mean the goal can't be the same. It's about the insight to understand and accept that.
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And before people start to distort things... no, I don't put women on one level with a handicap...