Don't listen to them lololol. There is nothing wrong with liking whatever it is you like, no matter that you are a man, woman, genderqueer, genderfluid, third gender, intersex or anything else, and "men and women are fundamentally different" is so backwards I don't have words. Not only is it ingraining an "us vs them" mentality, but is also wrong on so many different levels.
I like how nobody said anything about what people should or shouldn't like, and merely what what the different sexes *tend* to like, and this is being intentionally twisted into something like we're saying something about what people should like. In fact, you've twisted people's words into something so sinister, I can only imagine this is a subtle intentional smear.
Of course, it doesn't really matter what musings you have. The psychological science is clear; sex differences are real and innate and extend beyond cultural or societal influences.
The idea that sex differences don't extend to brain and thus behavior is simply ideology. It is not a very popular position in the psychological or biological sciences, and it's being asserted here simply due to ideology, nothing more. The fact that people are feigning that anyone here was shaming people for their preferences or acting as if they should adhere to tastes more in line with general tendencies is a pretty strong indication of that.
If you want me to take this seriously and want me to think you're not just ignoring the established behavioral science on this matter in favor of personal ideology you'll have to show us where people are criticizing other people's preferences here, because all I see is explanations and not any normative statements.
If I seem crabby, it's because I am. I don't like people trying to smear me in this manner, where one creatively interprets one's post to bias other people against them. This is absolutely a type of smear, disguised to appear not only civil but morally superior to one's opponent and to stay within the rules of discourse on a forum. But I'm going to call it out here and now because that's a pretty disgusting rhetorical technique and I'm sick of seeing it used.
