Still don't understand why they haven't fixed this issue. I've wasted turns because of this issue. It look like I targeted the enemy but then my character ends up moving next to them, dammit. It's not like Larian doesn't have several options to fix this issue, like you said a pause function would be really nice.
Read the post directly above yours. As long as you are using all the tools available to you it is impossible for you to move when you meant to attack.
If someone is choosing not to use those tools.. well, that is not the game's fault nor something the developers need to fix further.
The issue is not that the developers "haven't fixed this issue". The issue is players not realizing it's a completely avoidable mistake thanks to tools that are already available to them (which means it's a non-issue).