I can Alt-Tab out of the game, and others have mentioned doing so. If you have problems with that, try a windowed display mode.

There are 2 selections when resurrecting, one for the character (body, marker or portrait) and one for the destination.

Feel free to play games that auto-heal, auto-resurrect, auto-equip, don't have identify or repair mechanisms, etc. You being unable to understand the possibility of anyone else having a different opinion than yourself says more about your own intelligence than theirs.