If I may toss in my two cents:

As a male gamer, with progressive and modern attitudes towards sexism and portrayal of women in games:

I don't find this offensive. I do, however, find it kind of tacky. It reminds me of a Chinese shovelware MMO design, and I don't agree with the aesthetics.
I get the cultural elven expression, but it just doesn't sit right with me.
That said, I know DO:S2 will be a game with so many good things, that it will completely obscure this one thing I really dislike.