I'll say what I always say when these things come up - make it the same. If the armor is revealing, make it revealing for both genders, if the pose is over the top, make the exact same over the top pose for both gender etc. just make it the same.
They are already the same. But... they just toss out that fact, and males entirely since... well, it would distract from their argument that woman are suppressed or something.
