I really love their aspect of largely "consent" being at the core of their cannibalistic ideology. It does add a bit of a unique, respect driven approach to their culture. Its as some other real cultures in our world have described it in the past, as "please, allow part of me to become part of you" e.g. the "blood brother" hand shake (as horrifically bad this is for spreading blood-born pathogens lol).
I honestly wish the Default elf female was as equally clad in armor as the male, and that there were plenty of options for reserved as their are for skimpy.
If we look at Guild Wars 2 for example, they have an EXTREMELY diverse set of options from "realistic almost" plate armor to "skimpy bathing suite" levels of lollicon armor in some cases. The important part is there is freedom of choice and "skimpy" is not FORCED on anyone by default, just as being prudish or reserved is not forced on players as well.
As a gay male feminist of the moderate branch of feminism, the single most important aspect for me is having
agency in how one presents themselves vs being forced into a default image that others set for you or your character.
Sometimes the overly sexualized theme simply fits and works, and other times it does not.
If I want my Elf Female to be a fem fatal lightly clad assassin showing some skin (bark?), awesome please let me do this.
If I want my elf to be a well protected fully armored tree bark wearing bad ass bitch, please let me do this! You can strike a balance and no, you don't have to provide a billion options like a high budget full on MMO, but please don't make me feel like I have to choose one style or the other by default and with no options.
Here are examples of some of my really enjoyable Sylvari characters and my norn Thief from Guildwars 2:
Faelyn, my "desert nomad" looking Sylvari Druid.
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https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6LnJ4-WjK-CNGdmMEFqVmZhMWs/view?usp=sharing[/img]
Inara, my celestial knight-archer themed Slyvari Dragonhunter.
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https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6LnJ4-WjK-CT0lvM0k4WGF0Z2s/view?usp=sharing[/img]
Lastly, Talaan, my norn Daredevil (the skimpy one, a gal needs freedom of movement while being acrobatic!):
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https://drive.google.com/file/d/0B6LnJ4-WjK-CWVM3a2dLSEtFTlk/view?usp=sharing[/img]
Not mine, but here is an excellent example of "heavy" plant armor.
http://i.imgur.com/KXTADZX.jpg