Well there is the whole Life is Strange Controversy.
But I have a feeling that no matter what I pull up, it won't be sufficient evidence.
So I'll ask you. What SPECIFICALLY is "evidence" in this case? Let us get this down.
Who is actually saying games with women are bad?
Here is the thing... No one is saying that... directly.
Typically they either project elements that aren't there (So a game featuring a female protagonist is ABOUT feminism.) or they take a single element that was mostly able to be ignored and blow it out or proportion as if it was thrust upon them in their face.
Which the oddest thing is... Even if what they said was true. What is exactly wrong with a game ABOUT being a woman?