I'm sorry if it comes off that way, but I've simply lost my patience so I'm just trying to end this discussion on grounds of politics.
Some people have done what you mentioned (which isn't okay as not all concerned parties deserve such labels or being simply ignored despite however they identify), but a few others, such as myself, did go out of our way to mention other reasons why the style is the way it is or how this relates to the sexism and isn't really a probelm in this specific case argument without resorting to name calling. People have tried constructive discussion.
Some of us have even endorsed adding more options or how more options might be better. And I gave a couple I though would be amusing and awesome.
At this point, the it's just getting ridiculous how much politics has become a focused discussion here.
EDIT: And no, I don't think anyone inherently disagrees with the idea to add more armor options or modify the elf one. I kinda feel the same. But people have raised the point that we havent seen everything concerning the armor models (remember how they changed in D:OS with level?) and should wait a little bit maybe before being able to confidently say we want/need more or change.
There's also mods to fix the issue (as someone has mentioned) or the fact that the developers do *have* limited resources and priority must be defined for each aspect.