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EDIT:*runs off to a dictionary to look up the word stoicism*

EDITEDIT:

stoicism

\Sto"i*cism\, n. [Cf. F. sto["i]cisme.] 1. The opinions and maxims of the Stoics.

2. A real or pretended indifference to pleasure or pain; insensibility; impassiveness

wut???