Well your point about the Red Prince is interesting. Have you talked to him as an elf? I did it as Sebille and he was a total ass to me, a made a comment about how I was a slave and he could control me. I used a scholar check to tell him he couldn't, and he attacked me and I killed him. That definitely sounds like elitist jerkass to me.
I get what you're saying now, but that's the point of having different tags and characters. If you want a nice guy, pick someone who is or make your own character. It doesn't limit your options either; you're just changing the way ideas are expressed. You and I might agree on something, but I'm gonna say it my way and you're gonna say it yours, right? What's wrong with having the game be the same way?