The game just doesn't sound like it is for you, at all. I don't see it getting any more enjoyable for you and I only see you coming back to complain more before the game even is released and afterwards I can only imagine it'll get worse.
I think you should take the financial loss of what...26 dollars that it took to get into the alpha/beta builds of the game and just move on to something more for you, like Final Fantasy or something where you CAN grind until the whole game is pointless. Because I don't think we really need to tell you that what you want will never, ever happen in the history of this game or Larian Studios, it just isn't the game they make and one person not just complaining, but asking for them to change the whole game's foundation from the ground up, is gut crushingly hilarious.
You took a chance with a game you thought you might enjoy and you turned out to be wrong, it happens to all of us at one point or another. So move on or come back after full release and see if you can get that enjoyment you wanted out of it then.
