I don't think you are going to like Witcher 3 no matter what you do, you want something that Geralt can never be and you will only get more upset that he can't be the more you try to make him that way.
Really though I feel like you are asking for the "perfect rpg" that just doesn't exist, you want the best of every series put into one and as great as that would be, it just doesn't exist and probably never will.
