You shouldn't actually need to destroy the jars through dialogue.
Do you have a recent save before you destroyed the soul jars?
Please email supportdos2@larian.com, with a description (or link to this topic), the save after destroying the jars and the most recent one before (or a Dropbox or Google drive link, etc).
Each save is a folder in the '..\Documents\Larian Studios\Divinity Original Sin 2\PlayerProfiles\<ProfileName>\Savegames' folder. In Windows Explorer you can zip file(s) and folder(s) by right clicking on it/them and selecting 'Send To | Compressed (zipper) Folder'.
