It's not about hate it's about pointing out something unbalanced so that Larian can fix it (if they're even reading this forum).
It feels to me you don't see the point I am trying to make.
Now, if a 4% damage difference is a deal breaker to you for any DPS class, then you clearly want to min max.
And any game, when you min max you will always have optimal racial/class/skill combinaison which forbid certain liberty in how you build your character but that's the entire point of min maxing.