i just dont see how your doing such pitifully small damage with the incarnate... you realize that each infusion gives it +25% damage as well (though it is not shown it does in fact give it +25% damage per infusion)
Whats your level? You realize damage scaling goes up exponentionally?
my incarnate does 500-600 damage per attack and can usually attack twice per turn dealing 1000-1200 damage per turn.. and usually knocking the enemy down in the process... often times the enemy also tries to run away and gets hit a third time by opportunist..
The exact same goes for for the bone widow, 2 attacks, attack of opportunity.