I tried what I said above. The game crashed at least 5 times when trying to load on my main computer. It probably couldn't handle trying to download that many mods at once.
Looks like my player computer is stuck on a mod at 100% when connecting from lobby. I'll see which ones don't load if it crashes. I think it got about 5 loaded before hanging up.
Edit: after about 20 minutes on stuck at 100% I decided to abort.
The mods I got loaded on the player computer were
CityScape
Faux_Amyr (shows 0kb)
GMAddon1
GMaps_Little_Hamlet_
Gogots-MAPS
JRavens toolkit II (shows 0%)
MarketPlace
I'm not sure which one it hung up on
Last edited by WMC51; 18/10/17 11:59 PM.