BigTerJ - I think I am doing all your suggestions - focus on one kill at a time, flesh sacrifice/Adrenaline for extra action, not using enrage (will look at this), understand battlefield before fight, using teleport to move enemies around or cloak and dagger/pyro leap to move me. I might be "wasting" a few points in wits in order to get first move.
I am running solo - not two LWs, so margin for error is small.