@Try2Handing: I believe the problem is less a lack of writing talent but rather about priorities and caring. As I already said, a lot of writers don't like writing rance into their games. If the creative team makes sure to properly integrate the romance bits into the narrative from the get go, instead of having it run disconnected like in DOS2, it will make all the difference.

@vometia: Inquisition has some stellar romance writing. Perfectly integrated into the narrative, character growth, more than just "press X to f*ck". I found them very satisfying and natural. Can't speak for Skyrim cause I don't like Skyrim.