Wouldn't a genderless demon actually assume the gender of it's host? Because if it doesn't think of itself as having a gender, how can it be in a wrong body? Female mind in a male body, or the other way, sure, but genderless? Anyway for me, it's just a demon, don't really care if a she, or a he, it will die anyway. Amadia shortly possessing Fane while confronting Aetera, that's the real deal, she was talking through him with Fane's voice, not her own (the one heard in her shrine in the Seeker's refuge), but if you play Lohse and allow Adramahlihk to speak later in the same conversation, the demon will talk with a male voice, not Lohse's (I guess it's Daeva's voice anyway), which I personally find even weirder, than Adramahlihk's seemingly female body.
