Have you tried pathfinder kingmaker? Very similar to BG with the pathfinder ruleset. And check out Solasta Crown of the magister. It is full D&D 5e. Wish the demo was still available. It was awesome but still under dev. Sadly no co-OP in either.
Yeah I've looked at pathfinder. I'm thinking about getting it soon. The other one you mentioned is turn-based and I'm not all to interested in that. But I looks cool, I may try that out in the future.
