Well said. I've seen other ways folks do that, like being called an "incel". Some folks are intellectually lazy.
Not to be insulting, but an 'incel' is an actual person. And a dangerous one. They are people who think they are OWED sex, and that the opposite gender is actively working to deny them sex. They can be dangerous, because this mindset of 'It's not me; it's THEM making sure I never get laid' means many incels get actually physically demanding or violent if they are turned down, because they cannot admit that THEY are the reason they can't get a date or sex. To them it's always 'everyone else's fault.
