It is normal that you need to speak to Antopar to get him to unlock the library each time yo wish to enter.
If he is inside the library, that is a bug, with a couple of workarounds: the procedure in the topic armory trick in act 1 can get your characters through the door to speak to him, or you can teleport him out into the hall (Teleporting anywhere (via hex editor)).

For the latter, if you are not comfortable hex editing, zip your latest save and email it to support@larian.com and I can take a look at it.