If the game is TB then it is already tiresome. So I would rather have the decision to react or not, and how to react if I choose to react, be entirely within my control as the player. Put another way, if the game is in RTwP, then BG3's approach may be a good way to include reactions in a RT setting. But if the game is TB, might as well have Solasta's approach so that I at least get to retain full control as the player.
If you think turnbase is tiresome you really should be following a different game.
BG3 is clearly not for you.
